Summer Break

It’s really nice outside. Quit reading this blog, hop on a bike, and do something active.

myrtleOur summer should be a lot of fun this year. We are about to head to the beach to see family! I’ll be taking (and maybe teaching) a few classes, doing lots of research, and spending as much time as possible outside. I’ve been writing a lot the last few months and I probably have about 150+ post drafts outlined. After publishing for about 120 straight weeks, it will be a bit of change to not post weekly, but I’ll continue to keep track of my thoughts and write plenty of content behind the scenes.

So, go outside, enjoy the long summer days and I’ll see you back in August! I might even have a new design for the blog.

Also, feel free to email me if you plan on making it through Georgia (or Athens) anytime this summer. I’m always up for a good chat, tasty food, and nice bike rides.

It All Boils Down To Self-Control

When you write frequently about lifestyle design and personal finance you get asked a lot of questions. What does it take to live a happy and healthy life? What does it take to be successful? What does it take to live a fulfilled life? How can my relationships be better? What is the one thing that will change my financial life? I could spend years talking through the details of what it takes to be successful in every area of life. In fact, given enough time, I’m pretty sure I’ll eventually write a post that details specific ways to address each inefficient area in our lives. However, we will all realize pretty quickly that a simple thread weaves through everything we experience in life. Self Control. It all boils down to self-control.

marshmellow testWe define self-control as the ability to control our own impulses, feelings, emotions and actions. Life is all about how good we are at defining our desires and the courses of action in following through with them. To make ourselves better people, we must actively develop our self-control. For the scope of this article, we’ll break it down into health, money, relationships, and success. Continue reading It All Boils Down To Self-Control

The Slow Creep of Discontentment

I’ve always been a goal setter. Even from an early age I would put together a list of things I wanted or experiences to try. I really enjoy the art of self-examination in almost all facets of life. Gurus like to expound upon the necessitation of creating goals and striving for the impossible. But what happens when you reach the basic ones? Sure, you could rinse and repeat, but where does it actually get us? Does it make us happier? Does more achievement, stuff, or money bring us any closer to contentment? Or does the very nature of our marketing-consumer driven economy suggest that there is always something slightly better?

bali-254077_1280I see it happen in the mirror. My life is pretty awesome. I have a wonderful wife, beautiful and intelligent kids, a paid off home, a new car, a fancy education, and a nice job. We live in a safe and peaceful county and we have the ability to spend time with close friends and family- even travel the world if we’d like. On paper, most of us have it all. In fact, I would venture to stay that most SE readers are pretty well positioned too. But, despite all of our blessings, contentment can still be elusive. A fancier house, a better school, a bigger or a prettier something. Even a few more dollars on the balance sheet. No matter where we are, there always seems to be something slightly shinier, just a little out of reach. Discontentment (even among the well off) reigns. Continue reading The Slow Creep of Discontentment